I love Lochai’s site, Kirinawa. I get lost in the darkly beautiful, erotic pictures..

They literally make Me wet..

“BEACH BOUND”
AN EYE-OPENING VISIT TO THE EXTREME WORLD OF
AWARD-WINNING PHOTOGRAPHER LOCHAI,
SET TO OPEN MONDAY, AUGUST 4,
FOR A MONTH’S RUN AT WASHINGTON AVENUE’S
WORLD EROTIC ART MUSEUM

MIAMI BEACH—Continuing its mission to present the work of artists whose controversial subject matter frequently collide with what is generally considered to be acceptable parlor art, owner/collector Naomi Wilzig will present an exhibit by award-winning photographer, Lochai, Monday, August 4 through August 30, at the World Erotic Art Museum, 1205 Washington Ave.

An opening reception will be held Monday, August 4th from 7 to 10 P.M.

Declaring he “shoots for the walls and not the computer screen,” Lochai’s images of bondage and fetish, have been published in The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, Prometheus, Fetish Anthology and Extreme Anthology, as well as his own fine art coffee table books. In 2007, Lochai’s photo, “Beach Bound,” was judged by Erotic Signature as “The World’s Most Erotic Photograph.” Along with his runner-up images, “Alyssa Bound”, “Spider Brides” and “Curves”, “Beach Bound” appears in the collector’s edition of The World’s Greatest Erotic Art of Today, Volume 1 & 2.

Working with some of the world’s most beautiful models, Lochai, who along with Bobby Knight is a founding member and instructor of Pro Photo Tours (http://prophotours.com), finds his subject matter an opportunity to unleash the hidden truths and desires that lie not only in the persons of his models, but in the heart of his viewers.

Approximately thirty images will be on view, with Lochai planning to give a brief overview of his photographic work and bondage rigging using a female model during the opening night reception.

The World Erotic Art Museum is located at 1205 Washington Avenue. Opens seven days from 11 A.M. to Midnight, admission is $15 per person. Further information is available by calling (305) 532-9336 or online at www.weam.com.

My apologies for not posting Sugasm 140 last week. What can I say? I was in the middle of shooting  photos/videos with My pet, as well as a lot of “sugasms” Myself

Sugasm 141

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #142? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Comedy vs. Tragedy

“Are you on your period? What? Did he just say…”

Ian, or, Sometimes Sex is Hilarious

“In short, it isn’t sex blogger sex.”

A Wish

“I wish that you could know the indescribable pleasure of being enfolded in your warm, gentle wetness.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

Road Rage

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Forgetting

How Do You Flirt With Milk?

The Hunt

I Don’t Usually Date, but…

I have huge tits.

Men on Pointe

My Femme Cock

Nibbles and Bits: Vegetarian? Really? Doh!

Present and first love making

Sex Advice

How to Make Her Want Anal Sex

Play Safe

The Power of Suggestion- And How It Helps You Meet Women

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Gisele Bundchen Topless and Nipple Slip Pictures

HNT - Purple Lace Part Two

Lady Sascha Does HHNT

Marta - Professional

Once upon a time HNT

Pornsaint Tara Tainton

A rose by any other name would smell as sweet -HNT

Sam Bound

Sex Humor

It did not work

When your mother has more sex than you do…

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Can’t Get Enough

Fiction - The Wrong Smith Girl

Getting to fuck the neighbor 15

Harder…

In any language,…

Le Cadeaux

Nine: of nasty names

Oh Honey, Make Yourself Cum for Me

The Parking Garage

Pointless

The Ride.

Rub a Dub Dub

The Second Time Around

Slow.Soft.Hot.Perfect

Spin the bottle-the conclusion

Tits~n~Teets 2

TNT - Part 2

The Wanting

Writhe

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews

Can A Film Prostitute In 1930’s Shanghai Fare Any Better Than One Of The 100,000 Prostitutes Working The Streets In The City?

Donate To Satine Phoenix’s Tantric Exploration

Escort X: Find great escorts

Spanking erotica interview with Alison Tyler

The value of erotic blogging

Wanted: Your Orgasms Caught on Tape

BDSM & Fetish

Auction of a Slave

Changing Cravings For Pain: A Survey

A Beautifully Cruel Predicament Bondage Scene

Cuntwriting

Fitting Punishment

The house in Vienna

July MVK: Play piercing

Leather Retreat 2008 – The Toll Booth

Mz Berlin Gets The Bastinado And Rack Torture On Hogtied

Necessary Roughness

Routine Maintenance, pt. 2

A Scene in Three Parts … (part III)

Taken and Collared as a Sex Slave while her husband sleeps

Telegraph

Trying on new shoes, Friday night edition

Sugasm 140

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #141? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

“Are you a sex blogger or a sexy blogger?”

“It builds a community that I am so proud to be part of.”

The J Word

“And while you’re with her, I’ll be with him.”

Transcending moment

”It’s that place between fear and arousal, and they are so very closely related.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

Chill Pleasure

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BDSM & Fetish

Bathroom bang

Bros Not Hoes - F/m Spanking Video Clip

Cock training

Galerías de spanking: Spanking Server

Games Grown Ups Play

The Most Amazing Sex (and I didn’t come)

Mr. and Mrs. Kink Have Great Sex (Again)

My First Ever Fetish Photography Shoot & Other Wonderful Things

New spanking gallerie - Two girls spanked

Religion and BDSM

Rope

TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!

Your Slut

Sex Advice

Ask Miss Bliss-How Do I Know If A Girl Likes Me?

Fetish Safety - Branding

The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Advanced Exhibitionism

Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 2

Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged

Distraction

Fucking no foreplay

Getting to fuck the neighbor 9

Him

HNT - Peach

Insanity never felt so good

Interludes - part 1

Memoir Of A Married Woman

Popping His Cherry

Re: Dinner Last Night

“Red Bottoms” (Complete)

Sloppy Seconds, Then Thirds

That Time of the Month

Whiskey Kisses (unedited)

Sex Work

Sex Worker Solidarity: Catalina

Happy Thoughts on Being a Phonesex Op…

Stamp on my forehead saying “ask me about your fetish”

Sex & Politics

Natalia Antonova on Objectification and Desire

Teen Sex: The New After-School Special?

Women Enjoy Relative Sexual Freedom this 4th of July

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Bedroom Radio #18: Artemis Hunter and the Silver Bullet

Calstar Spanking - Severe deep stripe marks

Cheerleader is tired in gangbang video

Free video audition of Amsterdam sex performer

Half-Nekkid and Getting Shaved

HNT - A bit cheeky

HNT - Purple Lace

Making Love to the Camera

Mz Berlin Took This Picture Of Herself In Her New Wasp Creation Corset

Sex Humor

Top 6 Reasons for Not Shaving Your Beaver

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews

Catalina loves Lochai

Comstock Films

Drink Semen for Better Health

Interview about spanking erotica with Spanked contributor Teresa Noelle Roberts

January Seraph Is A Hot Femdom Dominating Jade Indica In Lesbian Latex Role Play

The Monday Buzz: The Bandito

Penny Flame Fucks A Handyman With A Strap-On and Feeds Him His Own Cum

Product Research: Blow Job Dildo

Yes! Yes! Yes! Personal Lubricant

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Be nice… until it is time to not be nice…

Finding out your good friends are swingers

Naughty Text Messages and Perverted Friends Makes Life Fun

Sex Advice Review: “Tips to Better Sex and Sleep”

Silence.

An aside:
I find Myself looking forward to Sunday mornings more and more. Rather than the Sunday paper, pet and I sit cross-legged in bed, with our coffee and laptops, reading all the Sugasm submissions. Sometimes we discuss our points of view, sometimes we argue them.
I would highly recommend reading as many submissions as you have time for, dear reader, as well as their parent blogs. Lots of little bunny trails to follow on this treasure hunt
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #140? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Flunking A Call

“I fell silent again and tried to think. What did he want?”

Revision

“He seemed… perfect. ”

Shaving, revisted.

“I don’t do it for society, for anyone who will or will not be seeing it. I do it for me.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

Exploitation, objectification and breaking the law…

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I am an adult phonesex worker. .
I do Domination on Niteflirt, which means I help guys get off on the phone for money.

Unfortunately, My chosen profession is stigmatized by polite society.
The funny thing is, like most people, I grew up thinking that adult workers were the dregs of society, with no hope of redemption, objectified for their bodies, etc, etc, etc. I am sure all of you have heard the same sort of litany.
That is not the case with Me. I grew up in an upper middle-class family. My father is a judge, my mother, a university professor. I went to private schools all My life, given swimming and dance lessons since I was a child. I have My parents’ hand-prints embedded on My back from them firmly but lovingly pushing Me through My first 23 years of life.
 I graduated from said university with a terminal master’s in a science-related field, where I then worked in a professional middle management job for 3 years.
I worked long hours, and made great money. Yuppie-ville, here I come.
As a phone Domme, I work even longer hours, and, for the time being, make less than half of what I used to. So why do I do this?
In my professional white-collar job, I had a boss over Me, who persistently pressured Me to get more out of the people that worked under Me. And I had people under Me, who complained about their jobs, and blamed Me for their working conditions. It always felt like a no-win situation to Me.
By the time I quit, at the ripe old age of 26, I was taking 60 mgs of Prozac a day, drinking an entire 6-pack of Heinies more nights than not, as well as doing a host of “recreational” drugs to stay sane. Not a good combination.
And so I quit to be a phone Dommme.
Now I do not take Prozac at all, I drink and drug rarely, and that’s pretty much it.
I feel like less of a whore now than I ever have.
I set My own hours, and My own price. If I don’t like you or think we click, I don’t have to talk to you. I actually enjoy My work. I can get off several times a day if I want. Occasionally I do so with My callers. Most of the time it is by Myself or with one of My RL pets.
If I want to take a day off, I do.*** I don’t work under fluorescent lighting, and I can go outside to walk/garden/bike/play whenever I want. Or if I just want to take an hour off to nap or fuck or masturbate, well that is always a good idea ;P
And I have realized that the money I make is commensurate with the work I do. I work very hard now, much harder than I ever have in My entire life. In My old job, working harder resulted in other people putting even more responsibility on My shoulders, not more pay.
Now I can see that there are so many more possibilities for Me - so many things to learn, like SEO,  coding, wordpress. Everything I learn helps Me, and in turn, helps My little phone pets. I am just beginning to climb My way up the ladder…
I love it.
I plan on doing this for a long long time

***I will be taking a day off tomorrow on 7/8/08, actually. pet will be here and we will be fucking like rabbits, as well as Me dominating the hell out of him. if you want to hear about that, you are welcome to call Me on Wednesday  

It is almost time for another photo shoot.
The next one will be on July 13th through 15th when pet will have some time off from work.
Here are some different gifts from My little phone pets that I will be modeling - such good little subbies!
I made a little collage of them from the online pics…  Some of them, of course, are different colors, and/or are multiples of different colors.

 I will of course send a personal picture to all My little phone pets, as well as taking a variety of pictures for sale and to use on My sites.
If you want Me to model something for you, you are welcome to buy things off My wishlist, or, if it’s a third-party purchase, you can always send Me a gift certificate  on Amazon. My email address on there is yourmistress@ladysascha.com. And if you like, you can always call Me up and we can pick out something together
And we WILL be attempting videos again.
We did try them with My little flip camera last time, but they weren’t too good, so we will try again. I am sure that we will do much better this time.
So here is a “lick and a promise” as I bring out My little teaser video from the last time we did shoots. I did cobble this together so it wasn’t a total loss…
And of course anything in life that gives us experience and helps us learn isn’t a loss at all, is it?

Some great reading here!

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #139? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

You’re going to come for me.

“I imagined her, bound. Wrists behind her back, whimpering.”

Champagne Orgasms

“I cry out, begging for him to stop, begging him not to”

Tie one on

“He slipped his hands under my blouse and teased my nipples and breasts with his strong hands.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

The Look

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This picture has been submitted by sss, who writes Sweat Shop Sissy, and is another Sugasm friend of Mine.

Is that not the cutest thing you ever saw? You’ve got pretty nice legs, seriously

And I love the Betty Boop thing you got going there.

Thanks so much, sweets, for sending Me this. And do let Me know if you want a picture of Me in panties

One of My little phone pets from Niteflirt called Me this evening, and on the call, sent Me this Panties for Men site.

He asked Me for if I would pick out some panties for him to order so I did - the Satin Double Layer Bubble Panty Fancy6 in a lovely turquoise shade, since the pink was out of stock. And of course I made him wait while I looked for some pretty hose to go with the panties - the Sheer Lace Tip Thigh Hi w/Foil Heart

I think that he will look so lovely in these nylons and panties, and I did tell him that I would love to see him in these. I am hoping that he sends Me a picture of himself in them.

So I started thinking - if anyone else would like to send Me a picture of themselves in panties, stockings, corset, bra, pantyhose - in fact, any kind of women’s lingerie - I would love to put it up on My blog. You don’t have to show your face, or be one of My callers, and you just might get a free picture of Me in panties and hose if I decide to publish it

The only thing I ask is that it not be considered “obscene” by community standards - that is, no genital nudity, etc.

Hope to see you soon!

As always, some top-notch blog posts…

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #137? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

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“Frozen, I wait for your next move.”

Balanced on the tip of my tongue

“Pushing her into the bedroom, I stripped her bare swiftly, laid her out on the bed.”

Impertinent Question: Do You Enjoy Spanking?

“That’s what we call Wednesday night!”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

The Source of All Waters

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