A Twitter friend of Mine, Frank L. Destry, who also happens to be a fantastic writer and a sexy, intelligent person, asked if he could interview me for his blog, Frontal Lobe Disinhibition (The Agnes Moorehead of Colloquial Blogs).
So of course I said yes. =)
You can follow him on Twitter at http://twitter.com/fldestry and his tweets are very amusing to read.
Thanks again for interviewing me, Frank! I enjoyed it a great deal 
The Worley Round
Favorite color: Probably one of the hardest questions you’re asking. I’m a very visual person, and colors are important to me…Maybe a grayish federal blue, like the sky before a storm.. Or the seafoam green of my grandfather’s vintage ‘63 Chevrolet with wings.Or the deep velvety purple of pansies as they are framed by surrounding sunshine-yellow of their fellow pansy flowers.Blue. Just let’s say blue =)
Favorite movie star: Another hard one. Probably Johnny Depp, not just because he’s hot, but because he takes chances in his movie roles. And because he seems to be a thinker. And makes wine. And is nice to little girls
Favorite music: Oh wow. Depends on the day.Anything from classical to classic rock to glitter rock to hip hop to industrial to tribal to blue/r&b to alternative.Shameless plug: I just put Jimi Hendrix’ “Radio One” album on my Amazon wishlist.
Turn-ons: Men who want to cherish me. Men who really like women. Having my toes licked.
Turn-offs: Men who want to top from the bottom. Men who are passive aggressive. Anyone who keeps petty little hurts bottled up inside and then throws them out like darts in an argument. People who keep score.
The Interview
FLD: What’s a day in the life of a phone domme like?
LS: Oh wow. Pretty unstructured actually, because I never know when the phone rings. But here’s a (sort of) schedule. All times are PST.
noon - wake up
noon - 1 PM: drink coffee. continue waking up. answer emails. read forums. read twitter.
1 - 2 PM: get ready for the day. shower, put on makeup.
2 - 4: mostly “me time”. I’ll go to a dance class or get my nails done, that sort of thing. Sometimes I will have a playmate here.
4 PM till 2 AM: Take calls. I will be doing other things as well - cooking, eating, might still have a playmate over.
Between taking calls, I might be blogging, coding my sites, working on graphics, interviews with horny men, etc.
FLD: You wear wigs for added anonymity. How do you pick out which ones you wear?
LS: Wow! You actually did read my site, lol! Just a hands-on thing. Going to the wig store with a friend who will be honest, and trying it one. Each wig has a name and a personality, I hate to say (yep I’m a little weird).
FLD: What’s the thing you’ve found most surprising about being a phone domme?
LS: The amount of technical knowledge I need to know, especially to market myself. I came into this thinking it was all just taking calls, and that’s actually a small part of it. I am learning though =)
FLD: What’s the hardest part of the work? Besides the obvious.
LS: Your funstick? Oh that was the obvious, wasn’t it? 
Being my own boss. Making myself stick to a schedule.
FLD: Has there ever been anything you’ve discovered in a session and carried over into your personal love life?
LS: Well this is more of a reinforcement than an actual discovery. But that men need a connection. Women tend to think of men just as compartmentalizing things and just having sex for the sex itself (not that that’s bad). But men need a connection as well. If not, then why call me? Go out and rent a video, it’s cheaper, and you can watch it multiple times. But I’m a real person that will call you by your name, remember you, and listen. Men need women to listen to them, not just vice versa.
FLD: Considering there’s no sensation for them, why do you think some women enjoy wearing a strapon?
LS: Actually I prefer wearing a double-headed dildo of sorts like the Share which goes up inside of me as well. Also I think it is just the fact that we are making our men be submissive that is such a turn on. For example, I’ve had one male submissive suck another man’s cock, and even though I am not part of the sexual dynamic per se, it’s so exciting, I will have to masturbate while watching.
FLD: You don’t do a lot of nude shots on your blog. There’s like one topless shot, and some shots of your tush. But it’s clear you stay in shape–how do you do that?
LS: Well I’ve always been athletic - taken ballet since I was six, and I still go to dance class at least once a week. I love to swim, hike, and play ultimate frisbee as well. I’m actually quite a tomboy, and always have been. Also sex will burn a calorie or two
FLD: You tweeted the other day about needing a caller for mutual masturbation. Do you do that a lot?
LS: As far as mutual masturbation, it depends on the caller. Most of my calls, I need to stay in control. I do masturbate to some degree simply because domination makes me horny, but I tend to edge myself.
As far as needing it, hmmm, not really. I usually take care of that with a (human) pet, or with my Hitachi wand =D. Now if the caller does want me to masturbate for him or for us to get off together, I have no problem with that. Unless I am already very worked up, I’ll be honest and tell him I need a certain amount of time to get there, and also a vibe will help things along as well. I don’t fake orgasms very well. I’ve never had to in real life, and I have tried to for my customers a couple of times, and just got tickled.
About Lady Sascha
Lady Sascha is a lifestyle Dominatrix, who also does long-distance phone training, both on Niteflirt, and on her toll-free line for money.
Some of her specialties include: sensual domination, edging, cuckolding, humiliation, tease and denial, orgasm denial, chastity, small penis humiliation, incest, mommy fetish, strict discipline, bondage, anal play, body worship, foot fetish, giantess fetish, crushing, asphyxiation, stomping, and trampling, just to name a few.
Feel free to contact her at ladysascha@gmail.com if you have any questions about her service.
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