I am an adult phonesex worker. .
I do Domination on Niteflirt, which means I help guys get off on the phone for money.
Unfortunately, My chosen profession is stigmatized by polite society.
The funny thing is, like most people, I grew up thinking that adult workers were the dregs of society, with no hope of redemption, objectified for their bodies, etc, etc, etc. I am sure all of you have heard the same sort of litany.
That is not the case with Me. I grew up in an upper middle-class family. My father is a judge, my mother, a university professor. I went to private schools all My life, given swimming and dance lessons since I was a child. I have My parents’ hand-prints embedded on My back from them firmly but lovingly pushing Me through My first 23 years of life.
I graduated from said university with a terminal master’s in a science-related field, where I then worked in a professional middle management job for 3 years.
I worked long hours, and made great money. Yuppie-ville, here I come.
As a phone Domme, I work even longer hours, and, for the time being, make less than half of what I used to. So why do I do this?
In my professional white-collar job, I had a boss over Me, who persistently pressured Me to get more out of the people that worked under Me. And I had people under Me, who complained about their jobs, and blamed Me for their working conditions. It always felt like a no-win situation to Me.
By the time I quit, at the ripe old age of 26, I was taking 60 mgs of Prozac a day, drinking an entire 6-pack of Heinies more nights than not, as well as doing a host of “recreational” drugs to stay sane. Not a good combination.
And so I quit to be a phone Dommme.
Now I do not take Prozac at all, I drink and drug rarely, and that’s pretty much it.
I feel like less of a whore now than I ever have.
I set My own hours, and My own price. If I don’t like you or think we click, I don’t have to talk to you. I actually enjoy My work. I can get off several times a day if I want. Occasionally I do so with My callers. Most of the time it is by Myself or with one of My RL pets.
If I want to take a day off, I do. I don’t work under fluorescent lighting, and I can go outside to walk/garden/bike/play whenever I want. Or if I just want to take an hour off to nap or fuck or masturbate, well that is always a good idea ;P
And I have realized that the money I make is commensurate with the work I do. I work very hard now, much harder than I ever have in My entire life. In My old job, working harder resulted in other people putting even more responsibility on My shoulders, not more pay.
Now I can see that there are so many more possibilities for Me – so many things to learn, like SEO, coding, wordpress. Everything I learn helps Me, and in turn, helps My little phone pets. I am just beginning to climb My way up the ladder…
I love it.
I plan on doing this for a long long time

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Good for you that you enjoy your work!
I worked the phones for awhile years ago and pretty much hated every minute of it.
My fiancee had just left me and I needed something to do to make ends meet and couldn’t take on another job (I was already working ridiculous hours at a bank and I was going to school full time).
I do love phone sex and I thought that because I enjoyed it so much and was so good at it that it would be a good move for me professionally.
I was wrong.
I quit as soon as I could afford to.
Anyway, more power to you!
I just may give you call =)
By Desiree on 07.08.08 12:14 pm | Permalink
I would love it if you called, Desiree! I do love talking to women as well as men.
Phonesex is one of those things, you either love or you hate, I think…
I think you did the right decision in finding something else to do. Life is too short to do something you don’t absolutely love.
By Sascha on 07.09.08 9:31 am | Permalink
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